Tuesday, June 21, 2011

First Homestudy Visit

Late this afternoon we had our first homestudy visit.  I think it went well. Unfortunately it appears things are going to take a lot longer than we would have liked.  You need a lot more clearances this time around. In the end it will be so worth it.

We won't have our next visit until July 15.  Too long to wait for me but we have to do it according to the social worker's schedule.  I need to stop worrying about it.  Everything happens in God's time.

Thursday, June 16, 2011

Preapproval and Homestudy

As of June 13, 2011 we have preapproval from China to adopt Fu Hao Ling.  Last time it took us months to receive this approval for Grace due to lost paperwork.  It is hard to believe we have it so soon.

Next step is to get our homestudy completed. Our first visit with the social worker is Tuesday at 5:30.  We chose Frank Adoption Center since they did our homestudy last time.  We will have a different social worker, the director of the agency.  Hopefully we can get the homestudy completed quickly.  Unfortunately much of it is out of our hands.  The homestudy includes background checks and reference letters. We have no control over how quickly they will arrive.

We went ahead and told the girls tonight. They were so excited. Grace wanted to know why we can't name her Sally.  That is her favorite name and she names all her dolls that. 

                                                       Alyssa Faith Braxton, God willing

Tuesday, June 7, 2011

Alyssa Faith

We are all tired of calling her Linda so we are switching to what we think will be her new name ... Alyssa Faith.  We have officially commited. First checks were sent today.  I still have lots of concerns and continue to pray this is God's plan.  Dallas is certain it is so I will have to believe it too. 

Alyssa is from Fuzhou City, Jiangxi in China. Unfortunately it is a different Fuzhou then where we got Grace. It is a different province.  She is in a foster home and from what I hear the children are well cared for.  Alyssa is listed as having developmental delays.  We hoping she will catch up when she arrives home but if not we will be prepared to get her all the services she needs.

We are trying to choose a homestudy agency now.  There are several options and we would like a social worker that is personable and completes the homestudy fairly quickly.

Sunday, June 5, 2011

Found Faith

We found her but to be honest I am so worried we made the wrong decision.  So many concerns this time around.  My fifteen year old had a seizure Wednesday(June 1) on the way to the bus stop.  That is our top concern.  He will be having an EEG done on Friday.  Of course finances are always a concern plus I have many more.  Dallas has the faith I am lacking right now and believes this is God's plan and we need to go for it.  At church we sang a song about not being afraid and that God is with us. Guess I really need to keep reminding myself of that.  She truly is beautiful!